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How to social network with an open mind?

It's important, not only to keep up with the world, but also to have an understanding and being able to adjust, adapt and enhance, in order to belong while maximizing the benefit.

So, the world isn't anymore what people in my generation grew up knowing. We now open ourselves up to outsiders. This lets us leave some of the social etiquette that we were taught by our well-mannered and proper parents right at the base of our desktops and laptops. We have become bold and speak our minds: not in face-to-face situations, but in cyberspace, where there's no "real" person to remind us of our good consciences. Because we're typing away at this blank space it is NOT interactive, and therefore we do not have a sounding board -a "real" person- with whom we interact. This prompts us to cross the line of good manners and, sometimes, become heartlessly unkind to fellow human beings.

If you normally think before you speak to your friends and colleagues, please continue to do so in your Internet social activities. Be even more careful when it comes to choosing your words, since written statements can be interpreted in so many ways depending upon the environment and the mood of the person who does the reading. We don't want to hurt people, either intentionally and non-intentionally, do we? Most of all, though, we do not wish to be misunderstood.

I am not an advocate for social network "accidental" misbehavior. But my top concern is for those of us who are affected easily by others' status updates and comments that look and sound not-so-nice, or even downright mean and nasty. Therefore, I'd like to discuss how to social network with an open-mind.

When you see a comment and/or status that you don't find tasteful, civil, or civilized, etc , you should move away from it. Do not read deeply into it. Hopefully, the person who owns such a statement happens to be in her/his moment and will soon leave the state which makes her/him unpleasant. Don't even react to it.

This goes both ways: you should never splash anyone, and, never, ever, ever mention their name in a negative way.

When a friend -not necessarily in real life, but a stranger whom you accepted and agreed to join each other's network- makes a comment directly to you -either out of the blue or in response to our status- that you find "strong," "sour," confrontational, or anything else in any way that you believe is out-of-line, you may:

  • a) like (I am not kidding here - most of the time the like button temporarily gets them out of your face)
  • b) ignore
  • c) drop the person
  • -or-
  • d) block the person.

  • Whichever choice you make, make sure that it's from a gut feeling. Trust yourself and your own judgement. Then, move on -guilt-free.

    Click to continue on Open-Mind-Networking part two:
    Your Relatives on FaceBook: To Friend or not to Friend -a serious matter.


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