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"Chain Status" Has anyone seen this?


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Chain letter? Social media? Facebook -popular place?
What? What? WHAT!!!

Chain-status is what used to be chain letters-those that we got in the mail telling us to copy and send to people whom we knew. Now in the age of social media, Facebook is a popular place to play the chain status game!

For lack of a better term, this is what I'm presently calling the -lately fashionable- copy and paste status (plural!) which ask you to repeat the same statement over and over. These are similar to the chain letters you received and read back in the old days, when you had to copy the content by hand and then send them to seven, fifteen, or twenty-three people you knew, and where the failure to do so would result in something horrible happening to you and your loved ones. As soon as we opened our own email accounts around the early 90s, this kind of chain -something- started to invade our inbox's valuable storage space. Chain emails come in different shapes and forms, but they all say the same thing: "Pass this along to six friends, good luck will happen to you within two weeks. Pass it along to nine friends, you will receive good luck in one week, twelve friends....three days, and, fifteen friends...tomorrow." What a single-level marketing scheme that was, capped by the additional touch at the end, "Do not delete this email without forwarding it, or bad fortune will touch upon your family and loved ones." (Just in case you didn't love your family!)

We are now in the age of social media, and Facebook is a popular place to play the chain status game, as you and I have seen the copy-n-paste, "if you read this and are ..." for example. The good thing is, because it has the poster's name on it, there is no threat in such statements -no, "if you don't pass this along, then today will be your doomsday."

Socially Yours-How to Facebook with style.

Most of these chain status are nice and sweet, for they praise certain people - moms, dads, teachers, soldiers, and others who deserve recognition- and contain no tiny url to click; therefore, they are not harmful to anyone. Depending on the nature of the statement, though, you may find it irrelevant or even annoying. But it's alright: in live streaming, like Facebook updates, things move down and off the newsfeed rather quickly, especially if you have a lot of friends. There's no reason to be irritated, except when the same person does it often enough for you to notice. -Even then, let it go, if you can. :-)

It's the other kind of chain status that I do not appreciate- the kind that contains a false statement -with, or without a tiny url- and asks you to generate by posting and re-posting. This kind usually plays on your concern. For example, it might talk about someone collecting your contact info for commercial purposes. This is nothing compared to a false statement regarding a missing child, or a kidnapping. One way this kind of hoax can start is by a person creating an event. Facebook generates it as it does every other event. Soon, concerned people like you and me spot it and start inviting our friends to join and take action. Like other hoaxes, we never know where they started, but the Internet is viral, and within minutes the information reaches every household.

When you see something like this, the best way to find out whether it's a real thing or a hoax is to do an Internet search. Use Google, Bing or other search engines to see what shows up under it. Checking Snopes -Urban legend reference page is also never a bad idea.

What you post is your responsiblity. Act responsibly, and always find out your source before you post. This way, you will not only keep yourself (and your mind) out of harm's way, but you will also save your Facebook neighbors.


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